What We’ll Miss Most About Our First Home

In the words of Rose from Titanic… I’ll never let go. We’re both going to miss so many details about our first casa that we had to dedicate a post to the little things that always made us smile. We don’t want to forget a single one.

1. The gorgeous cherry tree in the front yard that framed the house every spring and made the whole street feel softer.

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2. Our new kitchen — worth every chaotic day of eating out and living without a sink for those 113 days. It changed how we cooked and lived in the house.

3. The view into the lush, private backyard, which was one of the main reasons we fell for this place back in 2006.

4. The sweet front porch where we’d sit and watch the neighbors go by, sipping coffee and waving to familiar faces.

5. The layers of paint and hidden slivers of wallpaper we uncovered during renovations; each one felt like a tiny clue from the house’s past.

6. The amazing story about the house’s first owners that we discovered and shared — learning its history made the place feel even more special.

7. The fact that the front and back doors were so narrow we had to remove the doors from our new fridge just to get it inside. A ridiculous little memory we’ll laugh about forever.

8. Waking up each morning and looking out at the exact spot where we got married — that view will always give us a little sniffle.

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9. The quirky cow weather vane perched on top of the garage that always made us smile when we pulled in.

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10. The cute red shed in the backyard that we never really used, but loved seeing from the kitchen window.

11. The mostly centered windows throughout the house — a subtle detail that turned out to be surprisingly rare and pleasing.

12. How neither bathroom had an outlet for the first few years (one still doesn’t) — a small quirk that made life interesting.

13. The two fireplaces — a true stroke of luck that added warmth and atmosphere to chilly evenings.

14. The way the front yard looked the night we drove up to see the house for the first time. We put in an offer that same night.

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15. Rushing home from vacations because we missed the house — not the city, not the sights, but the house itself.

16. The sleepless nights spent painting, planning, swinging a sledgehammer, and daydreaming about what could be.

17. The charming neighborhood where we walked Burger, and later Clara, on slow, familiar streets.

18. The spectacular fall leaves that turned the whole place into a show every autumn (we won’t miss raking them, but we’ll miss the colors).

19. Those rare snowstorms that made the house feel even cozier, as if the world had tucked itself in.

20. The white and pink azalea bushes — dozens of blooms that greeted us every spring and brightened the yard.

21. The modest room sizes that encouraged us to gather together rather than spread out; they fostered closeness.

22. The wide doorways that opened up the den, kitchen, and living/dining room, creating a connected, airy flow.

23. The crisp white trim, classic molding, and breezy curtains that gave summer days a beach-house feeling indoors.

24. The patio, which has developed a charming patina of moss over the years and became a favorite spot to relax.

25. Making s’mores on the patio after we added a fire pit last year — simple, sticky, perfect evenings.

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26. The sunroom on lazy Sunday mornings; it became our favorite peaceful place to read, sip tea, and linger.

27. The subway tile that runs all the way up to the shower ceiling — I find myself admiring John’s handiwork nearly every day.

28. Our obsession with storage: 23 baskets and 10 ottomans in a tiny house. Is there an organizer’s anonymous? We might need it.

29. The built-ins in the bedroom that make the space feel like a tucked-in nook every night.

30. The fact that we brought our pup and later our baby girl home here. This house isn’t just our first—it’s Clara’s and Burger’s first home too.

31. The big picture window in the living room where Burger loves to bark at passing dog friends and watch the neighborhood rhythm.

32. The seeded glass pendant above the kitchen sink — so simple and distinctive, and something we haven’t seen anywhere since.

33. Memories of painting almost every room more than once until everything felt just right.

34. The sound of the sunroom screen sliding, which used to mean John was home — a small, joyous signal that made the house feel complete.

35. The absolute pain of removing the scallops from the front porch — my hardest solo project, but worth it in the end.

36. The strange excitement I felt listening to every crash when John demo’d the bathroom—pregnant at the time, I couldn’t join the smashing, but I cheered him on.

37. The little paranoia about unplugging the toaster or locking the door before vacations, and John kindly turning the car around so I could check one last time.

38. “Camping” in the sunroom on warm spring nights and regretting it when the sun woke us at dawn.

39. Plugging in the Christmas tree, sitting by the fire with hot chocolate — quiet winter evenings that felt like magic.

40. Phantom doorbell rings when the battery began to die — little jolts that always made us jump.

41. The garage door that swings out to open and constantly requires a warning not to park too close — an odd but memorable quirk.

42. How everything looked in the first year, before we knew how much sweat, tears, and laughter we’d pour into this place.

43. Seeing Burger sprawled near the vent under the side table, warming himself by the heat — a small, everyday comfort.

44. Screaming “don’t look, I’m peeing” when the half-bath pocket door broke — a ridiculous and very human memory we’ll never forget.

45. Our wedding night photo booth picture taken in the corner of the driveway before the rental truck came — one last silly snapshot of that perfect night.

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Some days just bring a lump to the throat. We’re thrilled to move into our new house, but we already miss this one — every nook, quirk, and memory it gave us.