Downsizing: What It’s Really Like and How to Prepare

Imagine downsizing from a large, builder-grade house to a cozy 1,200-square-foot cottage bungalow — two bedrooms, one full bathroom, and a giant dog. This week we speak with designer Shavonda Gardner and her family about that move: why they chose a smaller home, who pushed back the most, what daily space challenges remain, and the practical changes they made to make their smaller life work much harder. Shavonda is candid about the trade-offs, sharing both the joys and the realistic frustrations of compact family living.

Our conversation also digs into design strategies for smaller spaces. Spoiler: lighter paint is not the only answer. Shavonda explains how layout, multifunctional furniture, thoughtful storage, and curated layers of texture and color can all help a compact home feel larger, livable, and distinctly personal. She encourages diversifying design inspiration beyond the same few feeds and offers tips for building an Instagram or blog feed that better reflects diverse styles and lived experiences.

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Furniture color samples

What’s New

  • We’re excited to share sneak peeks from our upcoming furniture collection. Shown above are some of the color samples we selected for our wood pieces — each required multiple rounds of testing to find the right tone and finish. Below you’ll see raw, unfinished pieces as they looked straight from the factory before staining or painting.
  • Follow along on our social channels for behind-the-scenes content as we photograph the full collection in North Carolina. We’ll share styling tips, production insights, and the photoshoot process so you can see how the pieces come to life in real spaces.
Unfinished furniture pieces
  • If you’re interested in the topic of homeownership regret among younger buyers, there are a number of credible summaries and studies that explore why some Millennials express second thoughts about purchasing homes. These pieces examine financial pressures, maintenance responsibilities, and changing lifestyle priorities that can influence how people feel about homeownership over time.
  • We also reference an industry study that offers data and context for those trends; consider consulting reputable sources if you want to read the full report and draw your own conclusions.

About Shavonda Gardner

Shavonda on Brooklyn steps
  • Shavonda writes about design, personal style, and family life on her blog and shares frequent updates on social media. Her perspective combines professional design insight with candid reflections on living in a smaller, well-curated home.
  • She recently began a regular column that explores heritage, design influences, and the ways personal history informs creative choices. Her writing emphasizes authenticity, cultural context, and practical design solutions.
  • Shavonda also highlights the importance of diversifying the creators and voices you follow online, encouraging readers to seek out a wider range of perspectives for richer, more inclusive inspiration.
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